No fluff. No lies. Just the raw truth.
If you see yourself in any of these… fix up before the game eats you alive.
1. You think loving her harder will make her stay.
She’s already pulling away, but you’re writing poems and praying. Bro, wake up.
2. You believe “if I treat her like a queen, I’ll become her king.”
Wrong. You become her servant. Desire isn’t bought with kindness, it’s earned through power.
3. You double-text after being ignored.
She leaves you on read and you send “just checking in.”
You’ve officially become a clown in her eyes.
4. You pay her bills but you’re not even sleeping with her.
She’s calling you “such a good guy” while another man rearranges her guts.
5. You cry to her about your problems.
She’s not your therapist. She’s judging you silently while texting a man with a stronger frame.
6. You fear losing her more than losing your self-respect.
You tolerate disrespect just to “keep the peace.”
Pathetic.
7. You think soulmates are real.
Soulmates? That’s Netflix and Disney talking.
You don’t “find” a soulmate, you build power and attract options.
8. You try to be the nice guy who “proves he’s different.”
The only thing you’re proving is that you don’t understand women. She’s not moved, she’s bored.
9. You chase closure after a breakup.
She left. It’s done. There’s no mystery.
She got tired. Or found better. Accept it and move.
10. You buy gifts hoping to win her heart.
You’re not her man. You’re her personal ATM.
Keep it up, you’ll be broke and broken.
11. You wait for her to choose you.
Real men don’t audition for women.
If she has to think about it, it’s already a no.
12. You can’t walk away even when she disrespects you.
You stay hoping she’ll change.
But every second you stay, you prove you’re not man enough to demand more.
At Girls Approach, we don’t raise lovers who beg, we build men who lead.
This is dominance without desperation.
Simps don’t survive here.
Step up or step aside.
This is Girls Approach, Spread the message and save mankind.
And if you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you’ve decided to disgrace everybody!