Brother…
Only a man with money has the right to ask a woman “how are you?”
Because the moment you ask that question?
She’ll hit you with:
“I’m not fine.”
Not fine?
Like I’m your therapist?
Like I’m your doctor?
Like I’m the United Nations for broken women with daddy issues?
No bro.
You’re just a man who asked a polite question. But in her head, that’s your audition to become Captain Save-Her.
And once you fall for it… you’re done.
Now you’re the emotional dumpster for her stress, trauma, and imaginary depression she picked from TikTok.
She’s “not fine” because she needs:
$150 for hair
$30 for data
$60 for spa
“Small something” for her sick cousin in the village who appears only when she needs urgent $5.
You think she wants healing?
Nah, she wants funding.
You think she needs peace?
She wants a sponsor.
Listen…
This is how men get trapped.
You confuse her “I’m not fine” as a call for help,
But it’s a test to see how much you’re willing to fix her life with your wallet.
Don’t fall for the trap.
You’re not her pastor. You’re not her sugar daddy. You’re not the emergency response unit.
At Girls Approach, we teach men this brutal truth:
If you don’t have control, she’ll use your compassion against you.
And if you don’t have money, don’t be out here asking “how are you?” like you’re ready to handle the avalanche that’s coming.
This is warfare. Get hard or go home.
No whining. No simping.
If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you’ve decided to disgrace everybody.
Girls Approach teaches you this:
A man who values his energy doesn’t chase drama disguised as distress.
You’re not her cure, you’re not her crutch. You’re the prize. Act like it.
Step up or step aside.
This is Girls Approach. Spread the message and save mankind.
Join the brotherhood, learn the game, and protect your wallet and your mind.